‘He’s five years older than me’… and three other reasons Kiwis are losing out in dating

A client told me today that at 40, it was near impossible to get a swipe from women aged 35 – that’s simply a five year age gap and some women are considering a deal breaker. Honestly, when I hear stories like this it makes me cringe. Because this wasn’t his experience overseas, it seems … More ‘He’s five years older than me’… and three other reasons Kiwis are losing out in dating

Do you cut and run, cling even harder or simply stall?

Your your attachment style could be ruining your chances of finding love Sometimes the reason you’re single is complex. It was bad timing, you realised they weren’t the one, you moved away or you made a mistake dumping them. But sometimes it’s very simple. You have an insecure attachment style Attachment styles is not a … More Do you cut and run, cling even harder or simply stall?

Get in the danger zone – not the friend zone

Endless men feel the best way to win over a girl is to be friends with her. You’ll hang out, she’ll confide in you, you’ll build trust and a connection and you’ll be able to bring your best self as you won’t feel any of that ‘dating’ pressure. But familiarity doesn’t great desire. Constant availability … More Get in the danger zone – not the friend zone