A client told me today that at 40, it was near impossible to get a swipe from women aged 35 – that’s simply a five year age gap and some women are considering a deal breaker. Honestly, when I hear stories like this it makes me cringe. Because this wasn’t his experience overseas, it seems … More ‘He’s five years older than me’… and three other reasons Kiwis are losing out in dating
Your your attachment style could be ruining your chances of finding love Sometimes the reason you’re single is complex. It was bad timing, you realised they weren’t the one, you moved away or you made a mistake dumping them. But sometimes it’s very simple. You have an insecure attachment style Attachment styles is not a … More Do you cut and run, cling even harder or simply stall?
Usually around three months after people have got their profiles sorted, some return to tell me “it’s not working”. And it’s a valid statement. … More When it isn’t working
Chemistry. It’s the thing everyone wants but not everyone finds. Or of they do find it they find something else is missing. The hard thing is, we don’t get to choose who we have it with as it’s largely an unconscious process. The biggest complaint I hear among single people these days is that they … More The crack cocaine of love
Photos: The Deal Breakers Now before you go and take down all your drinking shots with the lads, hunting shots in the southern alps and the selfie you took with the hot Brazilian, here’s what you need to know. The results from the survey I conducted are in and the women have spoken. It seems … More What women want in a Tinder profile: Part 2
I surveyed a wide variety of women and asked them what photos they loved, what photos they hated, what they wanted a man to give away in his profile and what they wish he would keep to himself. … More What women want in a Tinder profile: Part 1
Endless men feel the best way to win over a girl is to be friends with her. You’ll hang out, she’ll confide in you, you’ll build trust and a connection and you’ll be able to bring your best self as you won’t feel any of that ‘dating’ pressure. But familiarity doesn’t great desire. Constant availability … More Get in the danger zone – not the friend zone